The 8-inch long thread that’s been hanging off the bathroom rug since the last vacuuming? Thanks for your feedback! Then I realized it was stressing me out so I stopped. Wait, why did I come to the kitchen? Cue another 5 hours spent on thinking up the perfect system. *Should I clean it up or set a trap for bugs by putting poison around it?. The counter between the kitchen and living room and the dining room chairs and tables are prime targets for “I don’t know what to do with this” stuff. For home I have a time table for everything. Procrastination is complicated, and it represents a failure of self-regulation: experts define it as the voluntary delay of some important task that we intend to do, despite knowing that weâll suffer as a result. I’m going to tell you how I break it down for kids and why. Or when I’m having someone over for dinner and forgetting something will make me seem like an idiot who can’t cook. That word, that concept is ‘chunking.’ I help students by learning to chunk. I have to walk through the garage to do that, and then realize there are some things in the garage that I want to throw away also. In all seriousness, it *is* something I would like to learn to control. So we chunk by time. My brain had to do different things to make the goal and to accomplish the goal. I do certain things the same way every week. Like I’m a bad person if I don’t want to look in the mirror today. But I see that your husband travels a lot, which probably means he has less opportunity for helping out at home. Procrastination is hard to beat. Hence it must be procrastination. Which. Without it, either my husband ends up shouldering an unfair amount of the cleaning burden or my house rapidly goes from okay to college dorm to frat house before I decide it has to be cleaned. I get so upset with myself if I get home and realize that I didn’t buy something on the list I needed to make a meal I was planning. It’s helpful for each big task to have a specific list of steps showing what he has to do in which order. âï¸ EF101: Here’s my jumpstart course for parents and teachers. But I’m sitting writing and not doing it, aren’t I? Some online to-do list! I’m completely unaware of EF fail when it happens, until the consequences become so obvious I can’t help but notice them. !” ð My husband figured out early on that if he didn’t pitch in, things around the house were not going to get done. Seth’s YouTube Channel So that’s grades and relationships. Executive functions are skills that enable you to do things such as pay attention, remember information, and multitask. That’s one of the benefits of routines, (which I haven’t set up all that great, but it’s a work in progress), they don’t depend on noticing stuff. So, what is the right way to do this? And that’s how a minor bit of cleaning turns into an excuse to a weekend long excursion through all of the boxes in the attic. You can look at many experts out there who talk about executive function, you’ll find that different experts breakdown executive function into different aspects. ð, I know this is an older post but I’m just reading it now and wanted to say thank you. but he does have a baby doll, and a made for his size sling… he does use them occasionally. At least that way I don’t have to worry about the electricity suddenly getting cut off. This is stupid. My routine helps to save me. I am jealous of the cleaning lady! What is procrastination? The idea of a large task seems to be so overwhelming that it’s enough to keep us from even starting. The garden is producing lots of cucumbers and tomatoes, a few eggplants and peppers. Looks like sauce. Itâs a fact that people procrastinate, but there can be many reasons why they do it. But it’s far too common that I won’t be able to acknowledge that a problem exists long enough to write it on the list. Loss of productivity because I’m not snipping that annoying thread off the bathroom rug? I also have to remind myself to watch for visual cues to do chores, such as the laundry hamper being full. And, yeah, “Must be procrastination!” <<<< "You're a lazy disgusting slob!" This feels more like simple executive function fail. Oh, right, there’s an empty water glass in my hand. The Costs of Organizational Procrastination. ð¦ YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. I totally agree with procrastination vs. executive function fail. It’s concrete because it’s auditory, it’s concrete because it’s visual and you can see it, it’s concrete because it’s kinesthetic and you can touch it. And now that I’ve started taking EF advice on board, I notice I’m starting to see a reduction in the severity of that cycle. I definitely find it worth budgeting for and any time I’ve had to cut back financially, I’ve found there are quite a few things I’ll give up before I’ll give up having someone clean occasionally. lol. We break it down into small chunks. It is outside the scope of this video to go into extraordinary depth on how to do that, but that’s what I wanted to talk about. A task for the paper is to read over the rubric. The dryer sheet on the laundry room floor? As I have two children who also have ASD that I home educate, I find that routines are essential for ensure all those “annoying” little jobs get done. You might need to walk him through it a few times but if he gets stuck or forgets something, you now have a place to send him to reorient himself rather than having to nag. Because I was gifted growing up, and so obviously can’t have any learning/developmental issues (sarcasm alert – making fun of my parents and schoolteachers here. I look at it. Yes. Executive function is a set of cognitive skills that are needed for self-control and managing behaviors. So I’m going to tell you essentially how I help students I work with, I’m not going to say overcome, how I help them work with and work through procrastination. It’s not that they don’t want to do it, just that it seems impossible. What is an Executive Function disorder?⦠We are chaos personified. Number 5: Finally, energy depletion. Triathlon training is chugging along nicely – 3 weeks to go and I feel great, if a bit worn out. I did much the same thing with other people’s blogs when I was first exploring so I have a good idea how you’re feeling. Executive Function disorder : A Definition Let's start with what the Executive Functions are, then we'll talk about overcoming Executive Function disorder. Obviously I’ve tried all of them over the years, but perhaps it’s time for a new feature analysis, try out a couple, get the apps. *sigh* But I can see how it would be an incentive for people who don’t want to spend an hour cleaning and who don’t struggle as much with the stopping/starting. I felt worthless when I was not saving someone. But my place doesn’t get as disgusting as fast, and my cleanup isn’t as time consuming because I’m able to stay on top of some stuff to some degree. Wait, why did I come to the kitchen? I think I will just go soak in this thought for a bit. As this month draws to a close, itâs likely that youâre stocking up on fun-size candy (sampling to ensure quality, of course) and perhaps carving a pumpkin or two with your family. You see procrastinators know they have to do that thing, but they donât get busy doing it. Or to clean after myself routinely… And I’d get teased and scolded for forgetting and leaving it. The right way to help a child overcome procrastination, so to speak, or lack of motivation or lack of discipline or however you phrase it. Wow, reading this I had to laugh as it sounds so like me. Self-discipline is not a bad thing. The right way to really look at this in my opinion and I work with a lot of kids who struggle with this stuff and I have for many years, the right way to approach this isn’t to use those terms, but is to say, “Hey kid, how do we help you learn skills to help you self start, even when it’s a non-preferred task.” Obviously, I wouldn’t use those words with the student, but the essence of this is how do we empower you, the student, to have skills, to have tips, tricks, strategies? Procrastination is usually seen as an exclusively negative phenomenon, requiring the inclusion of some characteristic such as psychological pain or irrationality. People will often use other words interchangeably with procrastination and sort of lumping them under these different categories, not really interested in that part of executive function, which doesn’t help the kid. For work, I am incredibly organized. That kind of thing. There’s a similar (though not quite as large and well developed) blog on Tumblr called unfuckyourhabitat that I followed for a while. I am married to an Aspie. Now for the strategy. ð. Maybe find a color-coded sticky note system that works. break it down. There is a huge difference. Questions/Advice/Support. ( Log Out / I’m emailing links to my husband who is replying: yes, yes, yes, yes that is you. So their grades are suffering from procrastination. I also donât know how to get out of the âhelperâ identity. Before I do that I wanted to talk about the impacts and consequences of procrastination. ð, I know exactly what you mean. It’s so strange that even when we know that we’re not doing anything about we just continue to not to do anything! I now make myself go thru things and put them in the toss or give piles. If so, I should reorganize my binders first… And so on ad nauseam. The perfect system does not exist. The EF fails just keep cascading and it makes me look like a hopelessly disorganized fool. I took a look today and the structure the site can provide looks really helpful. Yeah, at which point I kickstart my server space, install new stuff, notice a database problem I need to figure out, get lost there. hes 6 1/2. Often times the relationships your child has with you the parents, there’s a breakdown. I wonder how it got there. I would vacuum more often if I didn’t have to haul the darn thing out of the closet. Executive function is a term that is widely used in autism circles to describe a broad array of skills that have to do with an individualâs cognitive function . It’s not like fixing them would take a huge amount of time or effort. Thanks for the rec – I’ll take a look. That! Great! A task for the paper is to draft. Oh, right, thereâs an empty water glass in my hand.”. to be a “Super” student. You may also want to visit the page discussing ways to help your child develop Organization Skills with IEP goals for Organization. i guess im that way too, i want someone to tell me exactly how to do things, or i cant figure it out. ð Share: To support me, please *CLICK* at the bottom to share on FB or Pinterest. Even though the big goal is fun, the steps to getting there may not be as fun. I’ve done it with my niece a few times, and it seems to work pretty well, though I’m not sure how much of that is because she responds to that approach and how much of it is because she’s on best behavior for a grownup she doesn’t see very often. In fact, to demonstrate how minor they are, I’ll take care of them right now. Why is that? Once I have a place for things then it goes back to the correct spot every time. Then when I finally make it to the trash bin outside, I wind up doing yard work. Oh, small chunks. What is laziness vs. executive dysfunction? Change ). I once read that clutter is delayed decision-making. I know that I am not a lazy house-keeper. Here, ADHD authority Russell Barkley, Ph.D. explains how executive dysfunction originates in the ADHD brain and what these deficits typically look like. Rob does a short intro and then the rest of show (about 35 minutes) is our conversation. For X amount of time. It’s not until there’s a visual difference that i can see, that I even think about dusting. Have you seen Rudy Simone’s Female Asperger’s Traits? Procrastination is basically two sides of the same coin. I do think about it, and many times I am aware of what is going on, thinking “I am doing this again, noticing something and doing nothing”, but even knowing does not prompt me into action. There’s a sort of mental inertia around the chores you mention that can be so challenging. im thinking hes just as aspie as i am… and he does not deal well with change. Sign Up. I cracked up at the inclusion of “menstruate” as a task. There are so many EF barriers to overcoming E F dysfunction. I don’t know where to start. my brother was JUST like this as well. Funny thing is, I usually psych myself up ridiculously, realize I’m being ridiculous, say “This is ridiculous. She does a thorough cleaning of everything and is super good at it. This book also discusses productive procrastination. So if you want to go to college you have to do a lot of things get there. I don’t need to do this. ð. Posts about procrastination written by Steven Leigh Williams. Looks like sauce. And he bluntly told me so right at the beginning of our relationship. “Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome” – oh that is brilliant! I don’t know exactly what I have to do. I was told not to do those things, but maybe if your aspie boy shows the same copycat tendencies you can keep in mind that he is only trying to make sense of the situation that way. Often times the students get overwhelmed emotionally and that leads to avoidance. We have abstract and concrete. I could just write notes and pin them on a board, right? Executive dysfunction is not being able to do things no matter how hard you try. A task for the paper is to edit to, revise, to talk with someone about your idea and talk it out. I get totally overwhelmed by an unimaginable chain of events that I need to contemplate before I ever wipe that spot. So, whenever I try to back off from being a “helper,” I feel horrible, like I’m throwing away the one way I’m good at showing that I care. I manage bills and such by direct debit whenever I can. I guess I’m “high functioning” in the eyes of the non-autistic world because I recognise that. Maybe it’s also some of my ADHD mixed in (horrible immediate short-term memory) but yeah, the spot on the floor is a bit of info that just doesn’t stick to my brain long enough for me to think formulating a plan might be a good idea. ?”, What has helped me with these things is “cleaning organizing.” As in, having little tubes of lysol wipes sitting on every wipeable surface. How do we do this? 2) pass on the knowledge 3) get the “$&*#” done. Summary. With cat and do fur and litter bits from cat feet it seems I am always using it. And then I forget. Obviously your kids don’t procrastinate when it comes to doing something that they’re interested in, something they care about, something that matters to them, something that’s fun for them. So those are sort of the common ones that we see. What is this? It might sound like a bit of a luxury, but I’ve come to see it as a necessary accommodation (which thankfully I can afford). Plus a non-Aspie son. Well, that just means self-starting, it just means getting started, it just means getting the train rolling. Logic is clear cut and doing the same job twice seems like an inefficient use of time. Number 4: Procrastination also affects mindset, and often times these students who procrastinate, they start saying, “You know what I give up. ( Log Out / I also tend to know when I’m procrastinating but it’s less likely that I’ll recognize EF fail in the moment. Oh my, Nils! Goodness. I even manage to spray surfaces and then completely forget to wipe them off afterwards! I’ll also see things that I know need to be organized or put stuff in random locations….and then not organize them. The wipes will likewise make it a lot easier to clean up. I suppose I am the Leonard to his Sheldon. Even if they’re not conscious of what it is, they have the sense that something’s undone and it can really take energy away from them. Sorry about the me-rant. It may be because you canât figure out how to start something or because you canât figure out the necessary steps or arrange them in the correct order. So while I am still quirky (understatement) it doesn’t cause the friction that it used to. When I was about 5-6ish, I found it helpful to have an adult there helping me clean. What my procrastination looks like: Me taking a month to fill out my PhD application due to irrational fears of inadequacy resulting in me needing to find the perfect way to write my application essay, me freezing in anxious indecision when told I won’t be allowed out of my room until it’s clean as a kid and deciding I can just read books all afternoon. Inevitably there will be a pile of clean laundry that needs folding or dishes that need to be washed. This can affect planning, communication, impulse control, and overall mental health. “Don’t mind my dust. ð, Yup. “’cause you never know if you will need/want it later”. The other side of the coin of self-starting or task initiation is not initiating the task, and we use the word procrastination to describe the many ways that we avoid starting. It’s good to hear that you’re working with a therapist on aspects of your life that you’d like to change. It may work in the short-term through shaming the kid or putting a lot of pressure on a kid, but it doesn’t work in the long term to help the kid learn what they need to learn. The 20/10 thing is hard for me because I have so much trouble getting started that when I do get started, I’m reluctant to stop because then I have to go through the whole struggle to get started again. By the time I’ve had my coffee, the water’s had time to loosen any gunk, plus there’s visual reminders (the counter’s wet, the spray bottle is out). I don’t vaccuum my house all in one day, I break it down so that I do it one room at a time. My list is currently blank, by the way. It’ll take some getting used to, I know.Â. I have both too, and they’re very different. I like to get things as simple as possible. One spot might be easy to clean. I’m going to give you one concept that I think encapsulates a lot of how I approach doing this. I still get the cycle, don’t get me wrong. if mom can do it right why would i do it and do it wrong and get yelled at? If I’m waiting for something to boil, I tend to wander off and next thing I know it’s long past boiling and well on the way to burned in the bottom of the pot because oops, I went off and got involved in something and forgot I was cooking. Looks like sauce. We could be on the TV show. There are plenty of other theorists out there or strategist or coaches or tutors or novelist or whatever. I surrounded myself with needy, broken people…who were naturally self-centered and never took the time to notice that I might have issues. Thank you for the rec! “Hey, I can get the ball rolling with it. Yay! I do tend to leave it until I can do them all at once when I am doing my cleaning routine. Posted Jun 12, 2019 If I don’t clip my keys on my purse, I loose them. ð I set up the default tasks and will try to add stuff as it occurs to me throughout the week to build up a little database of reminders. I see a lot of typical aspie traits in you, just from what you’ve written here, especially things like perfectionism and the social coping mechanisms. Why am I saying all this? But can you do it for a smaller chunk of time? Cool. And congratulations by the way! I don’t know what it is. Yes, exactly. Just doing a college application takes a lot of executive function. But no one believes me. I learned that I wasnât very good at conveying love to people I cared about, but that I could show love by âdoing,â and that, I was good at! With the exception of one green squash a couple of weeks ago, all I’m getting are tiny little squash that turn yellow and wither. â¤. An area where you can help him cope with things that don’t come naturally or easily to him. I think you might find it more helpful than the typical lists of traits, which as you say are mainly based on males. Required fields are marked *, Top 10 Freebies Maybe down the road I’ll experiment with some of the new features (like this one that allows short “aside” posts). I know it’s all in my head but I will have to work on my residual insecurities before being able to use flylady comfortably. One bite at a time. I can at least get started. Such functions allow people to do things like follow ⦠Remembering that somehow seems hard. I’ve walked past it dozens of times. Understand exactly how procrastination fits into Executive Function and how it impacts students, Know my #1 key strategy for what to do about it, Self-starting, task initiation, get the train going, Procrastination, unmotivated, undisciplined, stuck, The impacts and consequences of procrastination. Executive dysfunction can undermine daily functioning and make it difficult to master new concepts and skills. Change ), You are commenting using your Google account. Wait, why did I come to the kitchen? He is not, nor has he ever been, interested in being saved. thats TOTALLY right, why would you do something when you might do it wrong? So basically, first of all, let me explain the many aspects to executive function. wow. Thatâs annoying. When I read the lists, they seem to apply more to males than females. I just wanted to say that I’m glad for your feeling of validation! When a student can chunk it down they can contemplate, “. See more ideas about study skills, overcoming procrastination, time management. It’s not very attention-getting. ð¦. When I was a kid, I didn’t know the difference between when “clean your room” meant “clean up the clutter”, when it meant “make your bed,” when it meant “clean the window” when it meant “vacuum the floor,” when it meant which combination of the above, and when it meant all of the above. A day later I changed my duvet cover. My first reaction to you mentioning your husband’s need for order was “well why doesn’t he create some? What I did to cope with the change was mimic my mother’s behaviour. I was in a disastrous first marriage We do that by chunking by task and by time. That’s why once I get started, cleaning can take me hours longer than it should because I find all sorts of little cleaning projects that I should do in addition to the usual maintenance tasks. I have another post coming soon, maybe next week if I get up the courage to publish it, that I think you might also find helpful. Now, I will tell you what you will often see in terms of procrastination as an aspect of executive function. The links between executive functioning and procrastination. So yeah-cleaning the kitchen = trimming the crepe myrtle. maybe its not intentional procrastination, and maybe if i stop labeling it as such, and start being more positive, i can try to not put down my son’s actions that might not be intentional. It’s great to hear that it helped. Thank you for this. Your email address will not be published. “Hmmmm, I really need to figure out a cleaning organization for my dining table area. Instead, my vacuum cleaner is always plugged in, waiting, in the room I vacuum the most. Okay, I will make the shower not gross. Use them if they worked for you, I don’t really care. I hope these aren't stupid questions. We want to get it from abstract world to concrete world. I can’t task initiate and I can get the momentum going.” So how do we chunk? What is executive function? 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